Is a narcissist capable of understanding the damage and the hurt that they have caused in your relationship?
11.06.2025 14:37
And yes, he was ugly too, but I idealised him. It was only when my mother stated "he is so ugly!" that I realised she was right. And my mother is always very blunt and doesn’t mince words.
Narcissists don't care how much they hurt you, or if they used you.
That's why they hate you so much. They actually always hated you, but they really show you just how much once they need to be rid of you.
What do you think is the most powerful line in the song "Non, Je Ne Regrette Rien" by Édith Piaf?
My ex-narcissist used to hurt me physically during supposedly "intimate" moments. Then he would smile evilly.
And they really don't care one bit about anyone they used, they actually just want to get rid of you as fast as possible.
They don't even care if they actually leave you permanently injured, or if you're going to die.
You're not a person, but only a source of energy and something to parasite off of. Then the parasite needs to let you go so they can be free of you and suck off somebody else.
Contrast this with how they behaved in the beginning, and you will see what monstruous and inhuman beings they are. This is how they are all acting with the new supply right now. With every new supply, they put up an act, pretending to be someone they are not, until it no longer suits them.
These narcissistic pieces of trash come in and out of your life, and then move on like the disgusting slimy parasites that they actually are.
What's the most incredible coincidence that ever happened to you?
So again, narcissists simply have no empathy, and no conscience. You could literally be in a ditch dying, and they will leave you there.
Think about it. You're just a tool to be used, that is all.
You are not a human being to them, you are a resource.. There are no feelings attached at all. You are literally just nothing to them, and the irony is that they are the absolute worst examples of what a person can be. Oh, the irony!
When I once exclaimed that he hurt me, he ignored what I said and acted as if he had not heard me. But he was very quick to criticise me if I even said anything about his behaviours.
I was in love with some weird unrealistic fantasy that did not exist. I cast all of my standards aside for this ugly pos that wore his jeans down to his ankles.
His way to shut me up was pretending he was having "heart attacks” or driving into traffic to scare me. Soon enough, being around this ugly bastard gave me extreme anxiety and panic attacks.
And that is when I started to get my groove back. When I realized I had been living in a delusion with this beast of a man who had no redeeming qualities.
They are now in someone else's house, sleeping in their bed, eating their food, and pretending to be "happy" around them.